Tuesday, December 18, 2012
“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.” — Mister Rogers
A recent service trip to Uganda by several Gorge women does contain some scary information, but the larger message of their story is found at the heart of Mister Rogers’ wisdom.
Service trip leader Linda Chamberlain, a French instructor for a community college in Utah, makes her summer home in Hood River. You may recognize her friendly smile if you have visited Willinda Blueberry Farm on Frankton Road. That spirit of entrepreneurism and Chamberlain’s personal love of knitting inspired a unique cross-ocean connection that has brought hope to a wide circle of women this fall.
Having already traveled to Uganda annually for more than 12 years assisting women experiencing medical and domestic violence crises, Chamberlain found a unique opportunity this year to help two additional groups of women — seven who live here in the Pacific Northwest, including two from the Gorge, and 69 more who were awaiting surgery at Kitovu hospital in Masaka, Uganda.
“I had been bringing hand-knit blankets to other Ugandan projects and had been to Kitovu last year,” said Chamberlain. “This year Sister Maura (Lynch) asked me to bring my friends and, in addition to bringing the blankets, teach the women at the Fistula Project how to knit.”
Chamberlain followed Sister Maura’s advice and brought a team of five more knitters and two extra helpers to the hospital for a week-long stay. Lynne Davidson and Jen Hanlon-Wilde, both Columbia Gorge Community College employees in Hood River, joined Chamberlain as part of the Fistula Project team.
“I had never heard of fistulas,” said Davidson. “I had no idea that this problem existed.”
For those who do not know what a fistula is, you can be thankful. It is a condition that is fairly rare now in developed countries, but one that continues to plague women in the Third World in vast numbers. In Uganda alone it is estimated that over 140,000 women live out their lives with unrepaired damage from the trauma.
A fistula is essentially a tear or hole that opens up through the bladder or rectum as a result of obstructed labor, childbirth or rape. For most women, the damage will also result in the death of the baby they are carrying and will leave behind a condition that causes ongoing leakage from one or both of their two waste systems.
Given the very difficult nature of the results, women with the condition are abandoned by their husbands, shunned from their villages and left to a life of isolation and shame. They have no way to maintain hygiene and, without village support, live in abject poverty.
According to Chamberlain, most of the women being treated at Kitovu have little or no formal education and do not understand the physiology of their condition. Even if they did understand their disorder, most would have no way to have the needed surgery to repair it. Many simply believe it is a punishment from God. The ones who make it to Kitovu have a miraculous chance to return to a normal life, all with the help of many caring people.
The Fistula Project at Kitovu Hospital is run by the Medical Missionaries of Mary, a Catholic order of nuns and supporters. Sister Maura is the head surgeon for the hospital and is in her 70s. Additional surgeons arrive as volunteers four times a year to perform seven surgeries a day for ten days straight in a very simple, clean operating room.
The women patients arrive quarterly from all from across Uganda. Generally, they take about 70 patients per quarter, and each arrives with a helper and their additional children.
The entire surgery and recovery process requires the women to stay at Kitovu for about a month. Each woman is responsible for cooking and doing laundry for themselves and their families with their helpers taking over after surgery. However, other than these daily chores, to pass the days away, there is nothing but waiting.
The women and helpers all share sleeping arrangements in one tent — placing the 64 mothers who lost their babies in close contact to the few lucky ones whose babies survived. It is a place where suffering is commonplace in many forms.
But Kitovu is also a place where help is given, accepted and appreciated in abundance. It is a place where hope is reborn.
“It was very powerful to feel that the small things we were doing were really impacting these women’s lives,” said Davidson, who helped teach 25 women basic knitting skills.
In addition to arriving with yarn and needles and a willingness to teach, the team from the Gorge and Northwest brought 17 transport boxes containing 90 knit blankets and individually crafted hygiene kits, plus stacks of material to help make a new dress for each women undergoing surgery.
Davidson used the trip to hand deliver knit blankets that came from another group of knitting women, all mother’s of children enrolled in St. Francis House of Odell’s after school program. Davidson was able to organize that knit-support group with the support of Columbia Gorge Community College’s employee volunteerism program. CGCC funded Davidson’s two hours a week of volunteer work to help the local knitters produce blanket squares.
The group’s fundraising campaign prior to the trip also helped purchase two treadle sewing machines to be left at the hospital — ensuring future patients could learn to sew and make their own hospital-departure dress.
“The knitting may have seemed like just a distraction. The women were scared and suffering … but it turned into something much more,” said Chamberlain. “They saw that after being shunned and pushed aside from their own community, others still cared about them.”
And the women — all 69 patients at the hospital plus family members — wanted to be taught how to knit. The team accommodated by working together in small groups outdoors under the shade of a few trees.
The results were inspiring. The women were smiling, laughing again and learning. According to Chamberlain and Davidson, many of the women kept their knitting with them throughout the day, insisting on keeping their needles and yarn with them as they went in to surgery. Ideas on how to use the knitting began to emerge from the patients themselves, resulting in cellphone carriers and other useful items.
That sense of joy and hope was magnified in the larger mission of the clinic, when the women emerged from successful surgeries. According to Chamberlain, shouts of joy, singing and clapping could be heard when the women realized their first moments of being dry after months or sometimes years. Sixty-four of the 69 women were completely cured.
The women who have been knit back together by caring surgeons and the donations of many who support the clinic know that they are no longer alone. They will return to their remote villages and can share the knowledge of how to receive care. They have been made whole again and will help others become whole again in return.
For Chamberlain, Hanlon-Wilde and Davidson, there is no better remedy for the ills of this world than to become part of the cure. Perhaps the best way to “look for the helpers,” than to become one yourself.
To donate to the Fistual Project visit: www.medicalmissionariesofmary.com, select “Donate Now” button and indicate Kitovu Fistula Project, Uganda.
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Parkdale third graders sing "12 Disaster Days of Christmas"
Welcome to your sing-able Christmas gift list. What follows is an emergency rendition of “12 Days of Christmas” – for outfitting your home or car in case of snow storm, earthquake, flood or other emergency. Read it as a simple list, or sing it to the tune of “12 Days” – you know, as in “ … and a partridge in a pear tree…” Not to make light of it, but the song is a familiar framework for a set of gift ideas that you could consider gathering together, even if the recipient already owns items such as a bunch of coats, tire chains and flashlights. Stores throughout the Gorge are stocked up on all these items. Buying all 12 days might be prohibitive, but here are three ideas for checking any of the dozen off your list (notations follow, 1-12.) The gift items needed to stay warm, dry and safe are also coded to suggest items in your abode (A) in your car (C) or both (B). 12 Gallons of Water (A) 11 Family meals (B) 10 Cans of propane (A) 9 Hygiene bags (B) 8 Packs of batteries (A) 7 Spare coats (B) 6 Bright red flares (C) 5 Cozy blankets (B) 4 Tire chains (C) 3 Flashlights (B) 2 cell phone chargers (B) 1 And a crush-proof first aid kit (B) Price ranges? Here’s a few quotes for days Three, Two, Four and Nine: n A family gift of flashlights (three will run $15-30, Hood River Supply, Tum-A-Lum) n Cell phone chargers (two will run $30-60) n Tire chains (basic set, $30, Les Schwab, returnable if unused for the winter) n Family meals ($100 or so should cover the basics for three or four reasonably well-fed days) n The home kit should be kept in a handy place near an exit, and remember that water needs to be replenished every few months. If you have a solid first aid kit already, switch out the gift idea with “and-a-sto-o-u-t- tub-for it-all …” Otherwise, it’s a case of assembling your home or car kits and making sure all members of the family know what the resources are and how to use them (ie flares and propane). Emergency situations are at worst life-threatening, at best deeply uncomfortable if you and your family are left without power for an extended period, or traveling and find yourself in a situation where you need to wait out a storm, lengthy traffic delay, or other crisis. Notes on the 12 gift ideas: 12 – Gallons of water: that’s one per person in a four-member family to last for three days, the recommended minimum to be prepared for utility outages. 11 – Easy-open packaged goods, energy bars, dried food and nuts are good things to include for nutrition. Think of what your family of four needs for three days to stay fortified and hydrated (see number 12). Can-opener also recommended 10 – If you have a propane camping stove, keep extra fuel handy. 9 – Hygiene bags: put packaged moistened towelettes, toilet paper, and plastic ties in large garbage bags (for personal sanitation) Resource list courtesy of Hood River County Emergency Management, Barbara Ayers, manager/ 541-386-1213. The county also reminds residents to Get a Kit, Make A Plan to connect your family if separated, and Stay Informed. See www.co.hood-river.or.us to opt-in for citizen alerts. Enlarge